Challenges Throwing a Baby Shower Party in KL

Since the baby shower paty for Nadia & Syarfa is just around the corner, here are the challenges:

1. All my family members never attend or hosting any Baby Shower Party before.
2. After received my invitation via FB and emails, they are very confused and don't know what to do, to expect, to bring or to wear.
3. Since I am the only one in the family had attend and hosting the party, so everything are on my shoulder.
4. In seems like evry day I texting them about what to wear, what to bring, what to expect. after one and another..
sigh...
5. The other challenges are they don't know what to bring, they asked me as an example. OH God..how can i tell them what to buy for my own niece..they need to think or at least seek themselves..

Hopefully everything would be fine...
Now I am very nervous about what game can they play? Can they follow the rythm of the party? Can they be suffice? Oh God, I dont know now whether my plan to do this BB Shower party maybe can be disaster..

I just need to proceed, as I have done half of the deco, have bought some of the gifts, have gave out all the invitations to both nadia +  syarfa's friends..

Pray for me!
Much Love [JayManaf]